Undoubtedly, there are those who believe that in all cases (or in the vast majority) those who got money became unhappy, unhappy, "poor" in spirit ... etc.
However, the reality is different, the rich are much happier than the poor people believe, and the poor are much more unhappy than they themselves believe.
But this does not do, that there are not rich unhappy, of course there are. Let it be clear that these people are the minority, but for those remote cases (believe me, I know what I mean when I say remote), I decided to analyze the true root of the problem.
Then, I will address why some people who get money become unhappy, even after enjoying abundance (and of course, the guidelines so this does not happen to you).
The first thing to know, is that regardless of what money means for each of us, it is still a material object, which can not influence the feelings of the person in any way.
If money were left here in the world, and human beings would abandon the earth, it would not hurt the planet or its members in any way.
So it is important to understand, that people are the ones who psychologically blame money for becoming bad, unhappy, miserly ... etc, with the aim of getting rid of guilt and not having to accept that they themselves are responsible for their actions.
Also, the poor use the fact that the rich are supposed to be unhappy, to explain why they have been in mediocrity for so long.
So let's look at why some do become wealthy, but they become so without happiness.
We must understand, that our financial performance has much influence from what we learn in our childhood about money. From everything that our parents taught us and from the experiences that we live in the respect.
Therefore, if we are going to analyze why some are unhappy with money, we should go to the root of the problem, which was their financial education as children.
Many people who become rich, do so by a conviction of wanting to succeed and achieve great things (in general, for something positive). But other people can do it for any of the following reasons:
· To demonstrate "what they are worth" to society and its friends.
· To bring to face their parents that they could.
· To "get out of misery" and get rid of its horrible environment.
And many other reasons, but I want you to notice the great negativity that is generated, the desire for wealth through these reasons.
It is clear that people who become wealthy through these beliefs will then have trouble relating money to some specific feeling. If it is resentment against parents, the more money they have, the more resentment will be against them.
And then, paradoxically (and given their mental structure) to rid themselves of resentment, they must get rid of their money. Everything works by association, people who associate money with something positive like peace, peace, calm, joy, purchasing power, and happiness, the more money they get, the happier they are and the more they can help others.
So there you have it, analyze very well in what bases the creation of your wealth, since this will be what in the future, determine how happy or unhappy you feel being a millionaire.
